http://samsara.ihostyou.com/quit-punishing-me/ Embracing the Journey Mon, 21 May 2012 10:04:52 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.6 http://samsara.ihostyou.com/quit-punishing-me/#comment-10774 Mon, 20 Aug 2007 21:48:41 +0000 http://samsara.ihostyou.com/quit-punishing-me/#comment-10774 [...] Quit Punishing Me was an article I’d written in the middle of a confusing, sad, lonely time in my life; Trying to adjust to a new relationship and establish new boundaries while attempting to grieve a loss of a past relationship and family. What I did not need were emotionally controlling people or their controlling nature’s exploiting me or my grief. I’ve been through too much recovery and have written and journaled and discovered too much about myself to let myself landslide back into that abyss of self-hate when I allow another person autonomy over me or my feelings. [...] […] Quit Punishing Me was an article I’d written in the middle of a confusing, sad, lonely time in my life; Trying to adjust to a new relationship and establish new boundaries while attempting to grieve a loss of a past relationship and family. What I did not need were emotionally controlling people or their controlling nature’s exploiting me or my grief. I’ve been through too much recovery and have written and journaled and discovered too much about myself to let myself landslide back into that abyss of self-hate when I allow another person autonomy over me or my feelings. […]

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