http://samsara.ihostyou.com/words-can-harm-and-heal-6/ Embracing the Journey Wed, 19 Nov 2008 13:01:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.6 http://samsara.ihostyou.com/words-can-harm-and-heal-6/#comment-15543 Mon, 28 Apr 2008 18:38:21 +0000 http://samsara.ihostyou.com/words-can-harm-and-heal-6/#comment-15543 [...] Especially today. Now. The bad news is that I am having some feelings of anger over socially induced “expectations” as well as the social dis-ease of “blaming and shaming.” The good news, is I get to share my process with others who may go through it as well as having an opportunity of letting people be where they need to be, and the always worthwhile “test” where I get to practice what codependent recovery has taught me! If you think I sound a little excited over feeling anger and insecurity, in the face of this, you would be right!  [Skip the below if gory details aren’t your cup o’ tea,] [...] […] Especially today. Now. The bad news is that I am having some feelings of anger over socially induced “expectations” as well as the social dis-ease of “blaming and shaming.” The good news, is I get to share my process with others who may go through it as well as having an opportunity of letting people be where they need to be, and the always worthwhile “test” where I get to practice what codependent recovery has taught me! If you think I sound a little excited over feeling anger and insecurity, in the face of this, you would be right!  [Skip the below if gory details aren’t your cup o’ tea,] […]

]]> http://samsara.ihostyou.com/words-can-harm-and-heal-6/#comment-10775 Mon, 20 Aug 2007 21:57:00 +0000 http://samsara.ihostyou.com/words-can-harm-and-heal-6/#comment-10775 [...] Fortunately for me, and unknowing to him, the lesson he would be teaching would be of a higher purpose than the plan I imagine he set out to accomplish. The lesson in this for me was: After learning everything I have learned and practiced regarding “Shame, Blame, Manipulation” and the personalities that invoke them in the name of control, can I now take the test and pass? Have I learned the lesson that God wants me to learn? [...] […] Fortunately for me, and unknowing to him, the lesson he would be teaching would be of a higher purpose than the plan I imagine he set out to accomplish. The lesson in this for me was: After learning everything I have learned and practiced regarding “Shame, Blame, Manipulation” and the personalities that invoke them in the name of control, can I now take the test and pass? Have I learned the lesson that God wants me to learn? […]

]]> http://samsara.ihostyou.com/words-can-harm-and-heal-6/#comment-495 Wed, 25 Oct 2006 02:13:58 +0000 http://samsara.ihostyou.com/words-can-harm-and-heal-6/#comment-495 I really fell short on Part 7. I'll try getting that ASAP. Had some life things coming up and have been quite defunct in my online life. I appreciate your comments, as always! I really fell short on Part 7. I’ll try getting that ASAP. Had some life things coming up and have been quite defunct in my online life. I appreciate your comments, as always!

]]> http://samsara.ihostyou.com/words-can-harm-and-heal-6/#comment-300 Sun, 08 Oct 2006 09:48:22 +0000 http://samsara.ihostyou.com/words-can-harm-and-heal-6/#comment-300 Excellent article! Shame and blame really go together. They reside in our perception. They eat away our consciousness. Getting rid of them is the only way towards salvation. Excellent article! Shame and blame really go together. They reside in our perception. They eat away our consciousness. Getting rid of them is the only way towards salvation.

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